Make sure friends to whom you can be accountable know about the dating situation and try to date in groups as often as possible.
Keeping the situation in the dark will leave you very open to the suggestions of compromise.
Too many Christian men are looking to marry Mary the Mother of Christ, but she has been dead a long time now.
No one is perfect, what you need to look out for is the genuineness of faith and the drive to grow and become a better Christian.
There are too many Christian men who couldn’t care less about these values, but if you do then these tips are for you, they are extremely helpful in maintaining the values of purity, focus and longevity in relationships.
While the bible does demand certain values be imbibed, it doesn’t in any way suggest that the fact that we are Christians somehow automatically tames our rage, our panting libido, our intolerance or our impatience.
Stay within the kinds of conversations that help you decipher the kind of person you are dating and if you are willing to commit long term to such a person.
No one wants to leave a trail of broken hearted ladies behind Him, much less as a Christian Man. If genuine emphasis is paid to knowing who the other person is early on in the dating period then this can help avoid sad dating stories.
Make sure your mentor is one with proven Christian character and convictions and preferably a good marriage record as well; otherwise it might be a case of the blind leading the blind.You need to stay with scriptures and prayers as well as read good books and get involved in activities that shape character.There is no need looking for Miss right if you are not alright yourself.The society is no more such as can encourage a genuinely held Christian set of values.I know the ropes because I too have walked it, tail between my legs sometimes and some other times chest out.It’s a tricky path and compromising those values is rather easy and much more so if you are too worried about relevance among your peers or trying too hard to escape the harsh societal stereotype of the Christian man.